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Are You Ready for a Renewal?

Ah, Spring…And though it officially arrived a month ago, for me it doesn’t really begin until the weather is a bit warmer and the grass and trees start turning green.

Spring is a time of rebirth and renewal.  A time for nature to come out of hibernation and rejuvenate.

Personally, I feel there’s just something magical about Spring.  The birds come back and I hear them chirping, I begin see the flowers budding, and I feel the sun getting warmer.  It’s lightens my spirit.

For so many of us, it’s a time when we begin to reflect on our life.  Kind of like in the New Year, but with less “expectations.”  I like that about spring, there’s less stress of having to make a change.

When I’m working with my clients, one of the things I help them with is that too often look to the past.  They look at how they didn’t lose weight before (or lost it and gained most of it back) and see themselves as a failure.  And they keep this in their head. Read more

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How to Stop Mindless Snacking

Do you sometimes find yourself eating when you are not really hungry?

Ever sit down in front of the TV, bag of chips or pretzels in hand–and before you realize it, you’ve finished the entire bag?

After you’ve finished dinner, do you sometimes find yourself looking around your home for a snack even though you’re not really hungry?

Maybe you dig into the candy dish in your office and later notice not one or two, but ten Hershey Kisses wrappers in the trash?

If so, you’re not alone.

Though snacking can be good for you, too often people snack mindlessly and snack for reasons other than true hunger. Read more

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The First Step to Ending the Diet Cycle

It seems every day there’s a new miracle product, program, or ‘food’ that promises weight loss.  Yet time and time again I see the promises are false (and I’m sure you do too!).

Sure, if you follow a diet plan you will most likely lose weight — but after some time you put the weight back on.  So you go on a diet AGAIN, and the cycle continues. Here’s how the process usually goes, in its most simple form: Read more

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How to Avoid Overeating During the Holidays

As someone who helps women with their eating, I surprise people all the time when I’m at a holiday party.  They see me eating the brie with soft crusty bread (and she’s going back for more!), then later headed to the dessert table for a few holiday cookies (how could she?!).  They can’t help wonder how on earth I do it — keep my weight in check and help other women do the same.

The trick is to avoid all the typical holiday diet “advice” — avoid certain foods, eat before the party, only take one serving.

Instead, you need to approach the holidays (and frankly, ALL year) with an easier and softer approach for both body and mind.

Here are some of my favorite suggestions:

1)  Make every bite count. Do you want to fill up on all the appetizers and then not have room for dessert?  When you arrive at a party take a look at all the food and decide what it is that you really want to eat.  What are the foods that are special to you.

You can have the basic cheese and boxed crackers any time of year.  But that beautiful brie and soft crusty bread — well, that would be a treat.  Don’t use up your ‘food budget’ on things you don’t really like much or enjoy.  Don’t go picking all the healthy foods because that’s what you’ve been told.

Instead, decide which foods you love the most, or the special foods you only get during the holidays, and eat those.

Because too much self-denial stirs up cravings that only get stronger and lead you to overeat or binge later on.

2)  Stay aware.  It can be too easy to be in deep conversation and not really pay attention to what you’re eating, or your hunger level.   So whether you’re eating a full plate, or just having a cookie, stay aware and take the time to pay attention to how your body feels and stop eating when you’re full.

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Thanksgiving Healthy Eating Tip

For a holiday that’s all about giving thanks, Thanksgiving Day is not the time to worry about calories, fat grams, carbs and diets.

Sure I know there are many tips for eating healthy on a holiday, but you’ve already heard or read about them before:   make sure you eat breakfast, drink enough water, limit your alcohol, fill your plate with vegetables, skip second helpings, etc.

And sure, it’s good advice, but what kind of world do you want to live in if you can’t enjoy a holiday without fretting over whether to have the pumpkin pie or not?  And lets face it, even if you DO fret over it you’ll probably end up eating it anyway.  Either that, or you’ll deny yourself the dessert, and then end up overeating or bingeing later on.

So this Thanksgiving I have one piece of advice (okay, two):  eat with pleasure and without guilt.
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How To Eat Like a Naturally Thin Person

The other weekend I was at a friend’s house for a party, when all of a sudden a woman came up to me and said “You’re having a piece of cake?”

“Yes,” I said, “and I’m enjoying every single bite.”  The woman then replied, “Oh, you must be one of those naturally thin people…I can’t even look at a piece of cake and not put on 5 pounds!”

Little did this woman know that for at least half of my life I dealt with overeating, emotional eating, binge eating, and yo-yo dieting.

Quite often people see me eating a guilty food, see that I’m at a normal weight — so they just assume I’m a “naturally thin person.”

What people don’t realize is that now, I have a relaxed relationship with food.  And that was the turning point for me.  Changing my relationship with food.  So much of what I learned about food, and my relationship to it, really came to light when I lived in France.

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One Simple Trick to Improve Your Diet

I like to think I’m not like “most” nutrition experts.

And though I’m all about nutrition — I also take a different road than most people out there.  I’m not going to tell you exactly what to eat and when.  Sure, I’ll give you my suggestions and advice — but I need to look at the individual as a whole and not just say “eat this, not that” (because if it was that easy you’d already be at your ideal weight).

You see, most nutrition experts and Diets give their clients a list of foods to avoid.

And guess what?

As human beings — all too often we want what we can’t have.

Let me say that again.

We want what we can’t have.


Think about it.  Imagine I tell you right now, that you can never have another cookie again.

Okay, forever seems way too long.  So what if I said you couldn’t have a cookie this month.  I bet that while you’re typing away at the computer, driving in the car, while taking a shower — during one or all of these moments — you’ll be dreaming about, wanting, longing for, and craving a nice warm, out-of-the-oven cookie (preferably chocolate chip, please).

Don’t believe me?  Try it.  See what happens.  DENY yourself something you love, and see how long it lasts.

Ever been on a diet?  Yeah, I thought so.  And remember ‘caving in’ to one of the forbidden foods — and beating yourself up because you ate what you were not supposed to have?

When I work with clients I do the exact opposite — instead of giving them a list of foods to avoid, I have them ADD foods to their diet.

Pretty simple, yet quite effective.

So whether you’re looking to eat healthier, or shed a few unwanted pounds — instead of taking things off your plate, trying adding some.  No, I’m not talking about overeating or filling your plate high with food that it looks like a mountain.

Instead, what I mean is start ADDING some healthier foods to your overall diet.

When you start adding better foods to your diet the unhealthier foods start becoming less and less.  It’s called Crowding Out.  You start to crowd out the not-so-healthy foods for the healthier ones.  So instead of “giving up pizza” you ADD sweet potatoes to your diet. (and by diet I mean eating pattern).

Crowding out adds more to your diet rather than cutting back.

But just start this small shift.   It’s not just a shift of what’s on your plate — but it also is better for your mind.  Because like I mentioned in the beginning with the chocolate chip cookie, sometimes just the thought of having to give up something makes us want to have it.

And by slowing shifting the way you see healthy eating, the easier it will be to stay on the path.

 

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