Weight Loss

Holiday Eating — Without Weight Gain!

 

Are you one of those people that enjoy the holidays, but dread the inevitable weight gain that goes along with it? 

Do you want to attend the holiday parties and social events, but fear you’ll lose control once you see the dessert table?

With the constant temptations of calorie-laden food, it can be a challenge to get through the holiday season without putting on a few extra pounds.

So how to get through this “Season of Eating” without weight gain? 

Here are some of my favorite and helpful tips:

1)  Make every bite count.  When you arrive at a party survey the table and decide which foods you love the most, or special foods you only get during the holidays.  Whether its pecan pie, creamy fudge, or another tasty treat that’s your favorite — have some of that and remind yourself you can have the other foods at a later time. 

Remember, too much self-denial stirs up cravings that get stronger and lead you to overeat or binge later on.

2)  Be realistic.  Don’t expect yourself to make calorie controlled, anti-oxidant, fiber-rich choices at every holiday gathering.  It’s completely normal to eat some rich or indulgent foods.  Don’t go to an event or party thinking you’ll stay away from those foods and only eat the healthy stuff.  Don’t fool yourself…be realistic.  You’re only human after all!

3)  Eat regular meals, especially breakfast.  It’s important to eat breakfast year-round, but even more vital this time of year.  Too many people will skip breakfast in order to save calories later in the day.  It always backfires.  Always.  You’ll only end up eating more later in the day, and then feel guilty afterwards.  Besides, breakfast is a good way to start off the day in a healthy, positive attitude!

4)  Just move on.  Picture this:  you’re at a holiday party.  One minute you’re sitting next to a bowl of potato chips and the next minute the bowl is empty.  You don’t know where the chips went, but your fingers are greasy…. 

Move yourself away from the food or buffet table.  Once you’ve filled your plate and eaten your food, just walk away.  That’s right, walk away.  It’s just too darn tempting (and easy) to mindlessly nibble on what’s next to you.  So just move on. 

5)  Remember that beverages have calories too.  I know, it’s tough to think that glass of wine, eggnog or punch is not “calorie-free.”    On top of that, alcohol has that magical power of making us forget that FOOD has calories too, as too much alcohol can lead us to overeat!

6)  Arrive at a holiday party HUNGRY.  That’s right, hungry.  Ignore the old diet advice to “eat beforehand so you won’t arrive hungry.”   You want to be hungry so you can enjoy some of your favorite foods.  Just don’t arrive famished.  There’s a difference.  You don’t want to arrive so hungry that you eat everything in sight. 

If I find I’m getting really hungry before a party, I’ll have a very small snack.  Just enough so I don’t arrive famished, but not too much so I still have an appetite to enjoy the wonderful foods when I arrive!

7)  Eat plenty of fruits and vegetables.  Okay.  I know.  I get it.  You KNOW you need to eat more fruits and veggies.   But this time of year fruits and veggies seem to just get overlooked or forgotten about.  Even I have to remind myself to eat more of them this time of year.  Especially when I’m feeling tired or blue.  I’m either not getting enough fruits & veggies, or I’m not getting enough sleep (or both).  Which leads me to….  

8)  Get your sleep.  Really.  I know it can be hard with the long hours at work, the extra socializing, and late-night business affairs.  But getting enough sleep is crucially important this time of year.  Did you know that people who sleep more are, on average, slimmer than those who get less shut-eye?  Yup.  And anyone who knows me can tell you I get 8 hours of sleep a night.  And if I don’t, I’m more tempted to reach for the high fat & high calorie foods.   So I’m careful to get enough shut-eye.

So get out your festive clothing and head to a holiday party.  Don’t stay home in fear of facing the food.  Instead, get out, have fun, and remember the tips I just gave you.  You just may find you had more fun than you thought you would! 

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Stop Worrying About Food…and Lose Weight

 

 
Can you imagine a life without the chains of dieting and constantly trying to control your weight? A life without rules, restrictions, and being told to eat the right foods?

Image just how wonderful it would feel to wake up every morning without having to face the scale, without having to count calories, without having to eat foods you don’t like that leave you unsatisfied.

Imagine….

  • being able to wear clothes you love and feel good in
  • thinking of food only when you’re hungry
  • finding real pleasure in eating 
  • eating your favorite foods without constantly counting calories or fat grams… and 
  • not feeling guilty – ever again!

Think of how liberating it would be to feel truly nourished.  Of being able to eat and stop when you’re full — and KNOWING when you’re full.

You CAN eat and not have to settle for the “healthy option” all of the time.  It is possible.

NO gimmicks, fancy foods or expensive items to buy.  NO chanting or repeating mantra’s all day.  NO need to completely turn your lifestyle upside down.

Just simple, easy advice that FITS fits into your lifestyle and leaves you feeling alive and full of energy — and being in control.  

I can show you how.

Discover a whole new way of eating, looking at food, and loving your body.  Learn how to create a healthy relationship with food…and the unwanted pounds will come off — without ever having to worry about putting them on again.  Ever!

Let the Eat Without Guilt principles be your passport to freedom from dieting.

Contact me and I’ll help you taste the freedom — it’s divine!

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Enjoy Thanksgiving Without the Guilt

Whether you’re trying to lose – or simply maintain –  weight, this time of year causes a lot of dread and anxiety.  You want to get through the holiday season without putting on extra pounds, without feeling fat, and without the guilt of eating holiday foods.

And then we all have the “shoulder angel” and “shoulder devil” talking to us.  You know, those voices in our heads, the two that constantly fight with each other about what to do.

You’ve probably seen them in cartoons.  On one side of the shoulder is an angel, representing good or “our conscience.”  On the other shoulder is the devil, representing bad or “tempation.”  

It seems these two follow us around, especially during the holidays.  You’ll be at the Thanksgiving table and all the delicious  food is being passed around.  You have those two guys on your shoulder.  The good one says, “Oh no, I can’t give up on my weight-loss efforts and my dream of being slim.  I’ve given up before and can’t do it again this year.”   While the bad one says, “Hey, it’s Thanksgiving for crying out loud.  You’re supposed to gorge yourself, it’s okay.  It’s only one day.”

So who to listen to?  If you eat like you normally do on Thanksgiving, then you’ll feel terrible afterwards, and then feel shame for giving up and not realizing your dream.  But if you diet and watch what you eat, then you miss out on all the fun.  

There’s no way to win, right?  Wrong!  

But what to do?  Listen to the shoulder angel or the shoulder devil?? 

Well, the answer is…both!

You see, Thanksgiving is about enjoyment.  Enjoying spending time with family, while being thankful for all that you have.  But at the same time, you have to understand the difference between enjoyment and gluttony.  It’s about having balance.

Here are some things to think about which can help you find that balance:

Get Rid of the Pressure

There’s already so much pressure on the holidays, there’s no need to add more to it by restricting yourself. Many experts will tell you to eat low-fat versions of your favorite foods, or only eat when you’re hungry, or even “wear tight-fitting clothes” so you’re less tempted to overeat!   Personally I disagree with these.  Besides, easier said than done, right!

In my opinion, this isn’t the time to be eating low-fat foods.  Thanksgiving is a day for enjoyment — to enjoy the food and being in the company of family and friends. 

What’s more important to you on Thanksgiving?  Eating a low-fat food, or spending time with family or catching up with friends?  Let these be your focus for the day and not the pressure of the food.

Take Pleasure

Thanksgiving is one of those days when you should allow yourself to be fulfilled and enjoy the foods.  

Take off the chains of dieting.  Don’t restrict yourself from eating your favorite foods. Thanksgiving is supposed to be pleasurable.  

If Aunt Suzie makes your favorite pecan pie, then go ahead and have some.  But enjoy it — really enjoy it.  Take the time to savor it.  Your aunt probably put a lot of time and effort into making the pie, so honor the food and enjoy it mindfully. 

Realize it’s Okay to Overeat

Don’t worry if you overeat a little.  It’s okay.  No one is perfect and it’s quite normal to eat a bit more than you normally do. The weight will come off later when you go back to eating more healthy.

At the same time, if you miss out on some of the food, that’s fine too.  You don’t have to eat ALL of your favorite foods, just eat some.  There will always be another occasion to eat those other foods.  We live in a world of abundance and it’s not like you won’t see that food again.

As always, it’s up to you what and how you eat.  If you really want to overindulge, that’s okay.  If you want to be careful and not eat too much, that’s fine too.  Just don’t feel guilty afterwards. 

Thanksgiving is one of those days when you should allow yourself to indulge a little and enjoy the foods. It’s supposed to be pleasurable, you just need to take away the “pressure” of doing everything right.  

So relax…. and enjoy!

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Are You Ready for Your Weight-Loss?

 

The past few weeks have been all about change.  Whether you live in America or not, and regardless of your political views, one word has been talked about a lot:  change.  

Now I’d like to ask this question:   Are YOU ready for change?  Are you ready to move towards a life of more energy, happiness, success and better health?

Look at where YOU stand.  Do you want stay with the status quo in your life, and keep making excuses why you can’t change and lose weight?  

But it’s not just about unwanted pounds. 

It’s about having a strong body, mind, and attitude towards life.

In order to lose weight successfully, and keep it off long-term, you need to adjust the way you look at food.  New behaviors must come into play.  It’s only through a systematic shaping of everyday common behaviors and attitudes that you will be able to “crack the code” and break old habits and learn new ones.  That is what change is.

People want to lose weight for many reasons, but one common theme I hear over and over is:  “because I want my life back.”

And I bet it’s the same for you. 

Maybe you don’t always eat right, or maybe you eat a lot of fast food and “quick” food (like microwaveable meals, stuff out of boxes, etc). 

You know you need to eat right and exercise more, blah, blah, blah.  You’ve heard it all a hundred (no, thousands!) of times but you just can’t do it.  You can’t make the change.  You WANT to, but can’t. 

In order to make change, you need to be READY for it. 

So the question is, are YOU ready?

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