A Powerful Tool to Keep You Motivated

by Dinneen  
Filed under Blog, Personal Growth

gratefulWhen I start talking to people about what I do, or when I start working with clients, the first thing they think about is a number.  A number of pounds they want to lose,  a number they’d like to achieve on their bathroom scale, or a size jeans or dress they’d like to fit into.

That’s all and good, as hey, I’m all about helping people shed some extra weight!  But they’re often forgetting about the REAL results of weight loss.  And it has nothing to do with a number.

Talk to anyone who has lost weight and they’ll tell you so much more in their lives was affected, and not just a number they had in their head.

What do I mean?

Well, if you happen to watch the successful TV. show The Biggest Loser, you get an inside look into their lives.  Especially once they’ve left the camp and are back home continuing the journey of losing weight and applying what they learned.  Almost everyone (well, actually everyone) talks about how their family life has changed.  The relationship with their spouse has improved, the time they spend with their kids is more precious (one reason being is they now have the energy to play or run around with them).  They have much more confidence, and performing better at their jos….I could go on and on.

So if whether or not you watch the show, you get the idea…losing weight goes WAY BEYOND just a number.

So I ask you, what does losing weight really mean to you?  What is the REAL impact is has on your life…and the lives of those closest to you?

Here is a simple, yet powerful tool that I use with my private clients, but I’m going to share with you today.

FIRST — Think about ALL of the benefits of losing weight and how it impacts your life.  Some examples are: clothes fit better, have more energy throughout the day, no more mood swings, depression or irritability, you feel and look better, sleeping better, less stressed (and know HOW to deal with stress better), more self-confidence, etc.  You could go on and on.  So list 20 (yes, twenty!) benefits of losing weight.

SECOND — Now go a bit further and think about how it will affect other areas of your life.  Here a just a few areas that are affected, along with some possible examples:

1)   Family & Relationships. Your spouse and children are now eating healthier as you’re cooking healthier foods.  You can now play with your kids as you have the energy.  You’re spending more quality time with your family whether it be sitting down having meals together, going for a bike ride together, or just talking with them.

2)   Work. You’re more focused, less tired, asking for the promotion, going after the job you really want, attending networking events now (as you feel better about yourself)

3)   Finances & Money. You’re saving money because: you’re eating out a lot less, not buying the daily morning latte, you’re eating less(!), drinking a lot less alcohol, off some of your medications due to getting healthier, etc

4)   Social Life. You’re going out more with friends, being more social, or dating more.  You’re attending more social events because you can “handle” yourself around the food, you have more self-confidence, WANT to be around friends (as opposed to “hiding out” because of your weight), etc.

5) Now think about how all of this affects Your Future in all of those areas.  How your relationships, family, job, finances & money, social life, will be better (and worth more) in the future.

So remember it’s not just about losing pounds – it’s about changing your life.

And in order to do that you need to look and go way beyond the numbers.  That’s the real impact of losing weight.

Transforming your family, your relationships, your social life, your work, your money – in a nutshell, your life!  It’s about becoming the person you were meant to be.  I truly believe we all are here on this earth to lead happy, wonderful, fulfilling lives.  So take the time to look at the real benefits, and not just the number on the scale.  And see how your footprint on this planet will be lighter, but more powerful and leaving a lasting imprint on so many other lives.

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7 Responses to “A Powerful Tool to Keep You Motivated”

  1. GeorgiaMist on October 8th, 2009 2:42 pm

    Great article! I can think of 20 benefits or more!
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  2. Cindy Loughran on October 8th, 2009 2:44 pm

    You are so right, Dineen. A number is just a number but the real results of losing weight are immeasurable! Thanks for the inspiration!

  3. Shannon Fab Fattie on October 8th, 2009 3:03 pm

    This is great information! I really believe the problem with my weight coming back was that I can lose weight anyone can loose weight but you have to lose the baggage that got you there in the first place as well.
    I am going to write the list of 20 it will be interesting to see what I end up with.
    Thanks for the information!

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  5. Carol on October 9th, 2009 8:30 am

    Yes, it really has to go beyond the numbers on the scale. There are so many other intangible benefits!
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  6. Dinneen on October 25th, 2009 10:42 pm

    @Georgia Mist — So glad you found it helpful, and I’d love to know the 20 benefits you come up with ;-)

    @Cindy Loughran — Inspiring others feeds my soul (sorry for the “feed” analogy!), and I find that inspiring others is like a wave….touches way beyond just the shore.

    @Shannon — Yes, one needs to get rid of (or at least put less value on) the baggage. And I’d love to know your list of 20 too!

    @Carol — I agree that there are so many intangible benefits to weight loss….waaay too many to name here. But if you think of how it affects the other ares of your life, you see the change is more than skin deep :)

  7. S.E. Seoh on December 1st, 2009 5:36 pm

    I totally agree! A great source of motivation…believe it or not is to weigh yourself every week. Have a goal that you wanna reach. Start with little baby steps…going at it full throttle will only discourage you and make it seem impossible after enduring a hard workout. I just invested in a new BMI digital scale…I threw my old dial scale out. Its great…I love it. Its comes with a remote and keeps track of your diet (which is pretty neat). And it only cost me 35 bucks at reliablepaper.com. I saw similar ones online that go for 150 to 250 dollars!

    Losing weight can be difficult but with a little help, it can be done! I strongly suggest you ladies invest in a BMI digital scale or any advance bathroom scale in the market. Its a great source of motivation.
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